Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Ups & Downs

Mike has been having a rough time this treatment. He has had a lot of pain in his stomach as well as dizzy spells and nausea. Today was the worst he has felt in a while. He had a hard time getting out of bed this morning. When he finally did we went to work and did as much as we could. By dinner time his pain was so intense he almost passed out. I had to rush him to the couch to lay down. Poor Ava got upset and we were both in tears by Daddy's side. I was doing everything I could to try and make him feel comfortable. I left the room to grab him a cool cloth and when I can back I lost it... the sight of little Ava knelling down next to her Daddy, rubbing his back and holding the trash can to his face was heart wrenching. No one should have to go through this never mind a child. Today was defiantly an emotional day. Mike is feeling better... but we have still been trying all the tricks up our sleeves that we know to help with the pain management. Ava and I cried together and snuggled for a while then we had a big family hug with dad.

Before Ava went to bed I pulled out a project that I had received a few months ago in the mail to help comfort her. A while back I came across a free CancerCare Comfort Kit for children who have a parent facing cancer. You draw on the pillow, there are 6 green hearts to write messages on that are put into the pillow, you stuff the pillow with cotton then seal it up. There is also a spot for a photo. We did it as a family and really enjoyed it. It seemed to calm us all down.
Working on our Pillow


As you all know m husband, Mike was diagnosed with stage IV Pancreatic Cancer at the age of 37 last September 2014. We have had our ups and downs with this disease and life... We've been forced to live a new "normal" that no young family should have to face. Every other week we stop everything to go to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute for Mike's treatment. A treatment that WILL NOT cure his disease but a treatment that will hopefully keep him with us until a CURE is found! We feel that it is part of our responsibility to help raise money for this cure... So as a family we will be walking in this years 2015 New England Pancreatic Cancer Research Walk

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Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Treatment 17

Mike's treatments and weeks off from chemo have been going really well lately! Last treatment he did amazing. He said he has never felt better since before he was diagnosed almost 10 months ago. It's great to see him doing so well. His attitude has been very positive and upbeat. He is back to playing softball and seeing friends each week. He looks more like himself and he has even gained weight. His oncologist is still very happy with his progress. Keep bringing on the good news!

We recently moved into our new home and also got a puppy! Mike calls her his therapy dog. We have been settling in and are so happy with how our home is turning out.

Our Home :)
In September along with our families we will be walking in the 2015 New England Pancreatic Cancer Research Walk.

As you know our family has been deeply affected by pancreatic cancer. You may not know that pancreatic cancer is the nation’s fourth leading cause of cancer deaths, and that its low survival rate has not improved in 25 years. Research holds the key to finding better treatments and a cure. That's why we have joined forces with The Lustgarten Foundation. As the nation's largest private supporter of pancreatic cancer research, The Lustgarten Foundation understands that research is our best weapon in the fight. Thanks to a commitment by Cablevision to underwrite the Foundation’s administrative expenses, 100% of every dollar donated to the Foundation goes directly to pancreatic cancer research. Let's give patients like my husband a fighting chance.

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Happy Puppy Parents!

Sadie & Ava

Sadie

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